People who have problems in partner relationships often say the sentence, my partner is a good person. He is a favorite friend among people. What happens behind the closed doors.

The fact that someone is a good person does not mean that he is a good husband, a good father, a good mother, a good daughter, a good son. So people have several roles and several faces. Sometimes it is easier for them to pretend that they are wonderful people, but when they enter four walls they feel like they are in prison and start to abuse their wife, children and the whole family and you often have a problem to prove and show that that wonderful person on the street he treats you badly.

If that person is good on the street, it does not mean that he is good to you. It doesn’t mean he’s a good husband, friend, father… If it’s such a big difference, you have the right to say, being good to others doesn’t mean anything to me, or loving you doesn’t mean I have to put up with all your behaviors.

You have the right to ask yourself. Is that partner, friend, father, mother, daughter, son correct towards you?

If they are not good to you, you can be good to yourself, take care of yourself, set boundaries and don’t let anyone put you down.